Tory Ojeda, 20 years old, has 4 boyfriends and she’d like for their group to grow. “Dividing time and scheduling between 5 people, and making sure everyone feels included, it’s a bit hard. I’d like to stop being the only woman in this relationship,” she said.
Three years ago, Tory Ojeda (20) met Marc (18) in high school. Two months later, she started a relationship with Travis (23), which expanded when she found love in Ethan (22) and Christopher (22).
Even though Tory is in an open relationship, she’s the only one who has multiple romantic partners. However, she said that their boyfriends are “welcome to seek other partners if that’s what they wish,” and she even encourages them to do it. “Honestly, I’d love for them to find other partners,” she said to Daily Mail.
«Dividing time and scheduling between 5 people, and making sure everyone feels included, it’s a bit hard. I’d like to stop being the only woman in this relationship. That would be something good” she said.
The polyamorous group from Florida, United States, lives together in the same house and everyone has their own rooms, but Tory’s partners are allowed in and out of her room every night, since she’s making sure that nobody is neglected by her.
Now Tory is seven months pregnant. A girl will arrive to this family in February. Despite the fact that this little girl is Christopher’s biological daughter, the five of them will raise her together as a family.
“Most of my friends know all of my partners and they love us and think we’re cute and stuff. My family is a bit quiet about their disapproval. Poly relationships are definitely not very common,” Tory said.
Christopher said that his family has embraced his life choices. “The pregnancy helped with that. But at the beginning, I know that my mother and father had doubts about this,” he claimed.
Not only they must deal with their families, they also have to endure the judgement of the rest of the world. Generally, other people judge them because of their lifestyle, but they’re convinced that someday soon, polyamorous relationships will be considered more common. “You can only hope,” Tory said.
For now, they’re focused on their relationship and their future. “We’d definitely love to have more kids in the future. Having five adults at home, we’d probably have more than one kid,” they said.