Four and a half years of marriage, one child together, and six months without sex before the official separation. That is how Emily Ratajkowski, 35, describes the end of her relationship with producer Sebastian Bear-McClard in an unfiltered essay published in The Cut in June 2026. 😬

What came next was, according to her, a season in “male hell”. Among the most memorable dates: a Brooklyn DJ who confessed over dinner that incest is something recurrent in his family, and a man she nicknamed “Elder Millennial” who would say degrading words to have sex with her. That last part was enough to send him straight into the story. 💀

Before the divorce, Ratajkowski said she had slept with only eight people in her entire life. After the divorce, she compared herself to the DC villain Poison Ivy: “sexy but terrifying”. Honestly, after that list… it makes sense. 😂

