The detail is visible in their wedding photos: he’s holding his phone and reading the vows. And on the screen, the ChatGPT app is open.

The bride, who shares her life on TikTok as @paolam.dehoyos, turned it into a video with a phrase that’s already an internet classic: “POV: your future husband decides to write his own vows with help from ChatGPT”.

She closed the clip with a single word: “Busted”.


Social media was split down the middle. Some defend him: maybe he already had the ideas and just wanted to organize them, or at least he could have copied them into his notes app so no one would notice.

Others can’t forgive him: if he couldn’t write a few lines for the person he was marrying, what does that say about how much that person means to him?

Vows are the only words at a wedding that no one can write for you. Is an AI that organizes your ideas a tool or a cheat?




