“If I leave the operating room and you’re not there, I’ll understand, my love”: he was 20 years old; he warned his girlfriend of 8 months that he was going to become paraplegic, and she decided to stay by his side

Por Valentina Ulloa
16 September, 2026

Carlos Tatay was 20 years old and had been dating for only 8 months when he entered an operating room without knowing whether he would ever walk again.

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It was July 2, 2023, at the Portimão circuit in Portugal, during a European Moto2 Championship race. He was thrown from his motorcycle at more than 260 km/h. Fractures, a traumatic brain injury, and a spinal cord injury that took away mobility in his legs forever.

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Before he underwent surgery, he told his girlfriend the phrase that sums up this entire story today: “If I leave the operating room and you’re not there, I’ll understand, my love.” He didn’t want her to bear a future she had not chosen.

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When he woke up, she was there. They spent five months at the National Hospital for Paraplegics in Toledo, far from home: he in rehabilitation every day, she working and not missing a single session.

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Today, at 23, Carlos still cannot walk without assistance, but he keeps trying every day. And she is still by his side.

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