By Upsocl
noviembre 4, 2020

And while it may not be a fairytale, it’s an experience filled with honesty, trust and love.

During the quarantine many of us have had to stay at home with our families, either alone or with our partners. But although many people might view the prospect of living as a couple, and spending every minute of the day together, as somewhat idyllic and romantic, the reality is quite different. Especially because couples may not see eye to eye on everything. However what’s important is how partners cope at times like this: When they are at home and spending most of their time together.

While it may not be a fairytale, what’s certain is that when a relationship is built on love, confidence and communication, it can get through anything. And of course not everything will be rosy and perfect. It’s important to be honest, realistic and prioritize trust and communication.

That’s what artist Amanda Oleander explains through her illustrations.

Through her art she shows the day to day reality of life in a couple and she does son in an honest way, without that exaggerated romance prevalent in movies or instagram photos.

They’re illustrations brimming with rawness, showing how partners support each other in everything and are capable of seeing beauty where others don’t see it. From overcoming illnesses and tragedies together, to falling in love over and over again, this is how it is.

1. This is how modern couples look nowadays.

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2. Sharing domestic chores

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3. Even doing them together

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4. Sometimes dealing with “problems”

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5. Spending every moment together

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6. Gazing at each other

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7. Until falling asleep

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8. Unplanned snuggles

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9. Loving their partner as they are

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10. Showing all their emotions without fear or shame

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11. Caressing each other

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12. Because affection is crucial

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13.  Especially in difficult moments

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14. Having fun together

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15. As if they’ve not a care in the world

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16. Taking over from the hairdresser

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17. And learning what the other person wants

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18. Being together in sickness and in health

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19. Enjoying the intimacy their share together

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20. And spending different holidays trying out new things

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Because although living with your other half isn’t a perfect fairytale, it’s definitely an experience filled with love, trust and honesty.

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